What to do when you need closure after a breakup, but they won't answer the phone for you
Why won't they answer the phone?
You only need one conversation, and that's it, right?
What's wrong with them?
If you find yourself asking these questions after breaking up with your partner, then this article is in your best interest. You are not the only one who has to continuously replay these questions just after a breakup, no matter how subtle it was.
So, what do you do when the relationship doesn't feel like it's over, but it ended? And despite everything that has happened, you still feel a connection to your ex? Thankfully, you've come to the right place.
Here I'll help you take in the breakup and, in the end, get that closure that you've been looking for. So, shall we get started?
Finally, the breakup is here. I'm sure you never thought it would reach this point, but it happened anyway. And just like that, life has to continue whether you like it or not. What's more difficult is you were used to hearing their voice, cuddling, and more. But now suddenly, it's all gone.
Well, sometimes you know exactly why it ended, but in other cases, the reason might not be that clear. But, either way, you still need to find closure.
What is a closure?
Simply put, closure is when two people agree to leave each other in peace. This gives both people a sense of finality, in this case, in the relationship.
When it comes to breakups, closure is when you and your ex accept that the relationship is over, and there's a sense of resolution. So, no matter what happened before, both of you decide to end things peacefully without any hard feelings. It sounds difficult considering that most of us have exes who hate our guts. Ending a relationship on a good note is quite challenging, but it's always the right move.
How do you get closure?
Typically, closure is different for every relationship. And, yours is no exception. Therefore, what worked for you most likely will not work for someone else. Also, what worked for your previous relationship will not work in your new one. So, you need to find the best way to deal with your breakup.
If you don't find a way to move on, you will likely have a hard time getting into a healthy relationship in the future. So, here comes the hard part; what do you do if your ex is avoiding you and you need the closure? Well, the simplest way to deal with such a situation is to try and find peace on your own. Yes, you heard that right!
I know this is going to be hard for you, especially if you need closure to move on with your life. Trust me; I get it. But the fact that your ex is avoiding you doesn't mean that your life has to come to a standstill. I know you are strong and I'm sure you got this. So, let me help you deal with this situation.
Now walk with me as we find a solution. You need closure to get over your ex, but you can't get it, right? So, what’s next? Well, in my opinion, you'll have to suck it up and find another alternative. And with that in mind, here are a few tips on how to get over your ex when you've not gotten the closure you need:
Reconnect with old friends
Having friends around will boost your morale. Additionally, it feels fantastic when you are reconnecting with old friends. There's nothing more heavenly like sitting on your friend's couch with a glass of wine and a box of tissues. And I mean that literally. That's the best medicine when you need to get over your ex.
Block your ex on all social media platforms
Well, this might sound rather childish, but we all have that part somewhere deep down in our hearts. The fact that your ex is ignoring you is tough to bear. But once you see that they are going on with their life as if nothing happened, you'll be shattered. So, it's best to avoid seeing any progress in their life. Just block them and nurse your heartbreak in peace.
It's the right time to dive into your work
If you've never been a workaholic, then now is the right time to start. Dive into your work and focus on your professional goals. Dedicate your mind into action and everything will play out in the right way.
Give it time
The best antidote for a wounded heart is time. The only problem is we typically feel like the world is ending just after a breakup. But that's the pain of losing your loved one. When all is said and done, you need to get up and continue with your life. Start handling one day at a time. And sure enough, you will be well on your way to recovery.
Work on your body
This is also another effective way of building your life again. Start a healthy meal plan and sign up for a gym membership. Once that happens, make sure you go hard as if the world depends on you. That experience will allow your mind to recognize how you are hurting. And within those few minutes, you'll feel relieved to let go. Even if it's just for a moment, the feeling of getting over your ex is worth it.
There's nothing more hurting like knowing your ex is ignoring you. But to tell you the truth, such pain and hurt will help you to move on. Now that it has already happened, it's time for you to find your path. You need to realize that no one else has your back except you. Take courage in knowing that you are enough. And all you need to get over your ex is yourself.
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